A. Lorde

"It is not the anger that will destroy us but our refusal to stand still, to listen to its rhythms, to learn within it, to move beyond the manner of presentation to the substance, to tap that anger as an important source of empowerment. 

When we turn from anger, we turn from insight, saying we will accept only designs already known, deadly and safely familiar. 

Anger can transform difference through insight into power. For anger between peers births change, not destruction, and the discomfort and sense of loss it often causes is not fatal, but a sign of growth."